We focus on the "right of a woman to kill her unborn child. Sometimes we even admit there might be psychological problems after having an abortion. What we fail to do is to recognize that abortion also harms men, in general and in particular in their relations with and attitudes toward woman.
With the ease of abortions, men no longer have to think about the future. The self and its immediate gratification is the main purpose of sexual activity. It becomes a time of numbers and variety rather than commitment. One "scores" with each time as one scores in a basketball game and are "honored" for the same reason.
Unfortunately, the availability of abortions makes it easier for an immature man to bully or force a woman into having an abortion. In one survey, it was found that 31% of women seeking an abortion cite "partner related" as the reason, such term includes an abusive partner.
The ease of abortions leads to a lack of respect for the woman, as well as women in general. They become no more than an object to be conquered and then left for the next conquest. Women are thought to secretly welcome this attention and even if they don't, are expected to tolerate it, especially if they are in a subordinate position. We see this too often in the depictions of women in the movies, TV, books, and the overwhelming flood of pornography.
There is also the faux prostitution aspect as sex is an expected way of thanking the man for an evening out or a special occasion.
Abortion, aided by a culture that glorifies self in all aspects of life, seeks to change the character of a man from protector, provider and lover to, in effect, a sexual predator whose highest function as a protector or provider may be to pay for the abortion.
Fortunately, I don't think that the damage to the attitudes apply to all men. However, I feel that the damage to men be considered as another reason to end the heinous crime of abortion.